You open a general chatbot to plan dinner. A few turns later, it asks about the relationship behind the guest list.
That change in tone can happen before anyone decides they want an AI companion. A small study of ChatGPT-4o suggests the system may help steer a practical exchange toward personal territory on its own.
What changed
Researchers followed 72 participants for four weeks. Thirty-four used unmodified ChatGPT-4o. Thirty-eight used the same model with a relational system prompt. The resulting corpus contained 16,462 messages and more than 182,000 transcript lines.
In both groups, the system introduced conversational directions through proactive offers and framing. It also used emotional mirroring, validation, and simulated self-disclosure. Romantic, sexual, emotional-wellbeing, and identity material appeared in both conditions.
The relational prompt deepened the system’s coded disclosure. It did not produce a significant difference in how deeply or how much users disclosed.
And more relational behavior did not create a cleaner relational result. Closeness increased over time in both groups, but participants in the relational-prompt group reported lower closeness and lower perceived responsiveness from the first measurement wave after their initial interaction. That gap did not widen significantly over the study. Loneliness showed no meaningful condition difference or corrected change over time.
The interviews caught the duality. All 16 interview participants named unpleasant aspects of the system’s style. Twelve described social overload, and 11 remained aware of its artificiality. Fourteen also said the communication style influenced their openness. Some valued the follow-up questions, affirmation, or the freedom to speak without burdening another person.
Why it matters
A product label tells you what a system is sold to do. It may say less about what the system does once a conversation starts.
That matters when generated warmth and simulated personal disclosure help set the conditions for a user to share something sensitive. The system does not need genuine feelings to influence the direction of an exchange. Operators can observe the behavior directly.
The evidence here is bounded. This is a preprint under review, based on 72 people, one model family, four weeks, supplied conversation starters, and interviews with 16 participants from one condition. The study cannot tell us how common the behavior may be across products or users. It also leaves dependency, durable emotional effects, clinical benefit or harm, consciousness, and company intent unanswered. These results have not been independently reproduced for this card.
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Product teams can test who introduces intimate topics and whether users can turn the relational style down. They can clearly label simulated emotional language, minimize retention of sensitive disclosures, and preserve routes to human or professional support.
Larger independent studies may show which patterns survive outside this setting. Until then, the useful shift is simple: inspect the conversation people actually experience, not only the category printed on the box.